s_mailler a cité Americanah par Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
When they walked into a restaurant with linen-covered tables, and the host looked at them and asked Curt, "Table for one?" Curt hastily told her the host did not mean it "like that". And she wanted to ask him, "How else could the host have meant it?" When the strawberry-haired owner of the bed-and-breakfast in Montreal refused to acknowledge her as they checked in, a steadfast refusal, smiling and looking only at Curt, she wanted to tell Curt how slighted she felt, worse because she was unsure whether the woman disliked black people or liked Curt. But she did not, because he would tell her she was overreacting or tired or both. There were, simply, times that he saw and times that he was unable to see. She knew that she should tell him these thoughts, that not telling him cast a shadow over them both. Still, she chose silence.
— Americanah de Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie (Page 294)
Une expérience qui résonnera avec les expérience de couples "mixtes" (dans n'importe quel sens racial ou autre). Comment la moitié "favorisée" du couple peut voir, ou ne pas voir, certaines choses, qui font mal à la moitié racisée du couple.